Apparantly, I Am the Epitome of Secure

The Secure
You scored 82% Security, 17% Avoidance, and 35% Anxiousness!
Hey baby, you so fine baby!

You are that warm, nougaty center that everyone wants to be and be
with. I bet you knew that before you went into this thing though,
didn’t you? You’re the kind of person who finds making friends easy
enough, people seem to respond to you fairly well, you don’t doubt
(most days) that you’re an ok person, and probably, you’re most of the
people taking this test. Good on.

What’s that say about you? Generally, the Secures want you (and you
should want them in return, you’d be badass together), the
Anxious-Ambivalents want you (even if you don’t want them) and the
Avoidants? Secretly, we’re kidding ourselves, we want you too. Everyone
just digs your jelly, and if I have ot explain why to you, you’re not
as Secure as you think you are. You’re fairly self-confident, you’re
generally appealing on an emotional level and ok, I’ll say it, there is
a possibility that a margin of you are as Secure as you appear to be
because…shall we say that you don’t always have the deeper thought
processes to recognize that you’re not Secure? But far and away, that’s
not the truth. You’re smart enough to know what happy is, and even if
you don’t feel that personally you’re a “stable” person or a person who
has high self-esteem, that’s not what makes
you a Secure. Being a Secure attachment style doesn’t have much to do
with your opinion of you, unless your opinion is that your a psychopath
and then…well maybe you should go back and try to do the questions
honestly this time, hmm? Attachment style generally, is a function of
your relationships. Do you have them? Yes? Do they make you want to
vomit? No?Congratulations, welcome to Secure Attachment Style 101.

What separates you from your crazy partners, is that as a GENERAL not always
rule, you consider that other people don’t run from you and you don’t
run from them. You don’t always attract people with so much ease that
everyone here wants to stab you for it, but when you do? That works out
in your favor. Your friends are your friends for a reason, because to
them? You’re wicked cool and there’s not a lot about you that they
would say is something that needs to be changed.

I advise you to always avoid the Anxious-Ambivalent (and if they knew
we were talking about them right now, they would be SO pissed) because
while you can be into the cuddling thing, you know when enough is
enough and they don’t. If you’re slightly showing some Avoidant
characteristics, they aren’t a bad choice, not great for you either,
because they want to be around less than you would like and you’re not
100% all the time rainbows, sunshine and twinkles up someone’s ass, you
need things too and it’s not fair for you to get involved with someone
who won’t be on the same page as you by giving you LESS than you think
you deserve.

Pick an attachment match. Secure styles are wanted by everyone, but
they have the option of being particular and you, you should be
particular in the direction of other Secure styles, they inherently get
you and they get why you are the way that you are, they neither want
too much nor too little and they’ll be there, so long as they remember
to call you, and you them. It’s a match made in sickening,
well-adjusted heaven.

My test tracked 3 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:

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You scored higher than 96% on Security
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You scored higher than 0% on Avoidance
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You scored higher than 28% on Anxiousness

Link: The Sullivan Attachment Style Test written by pretentiaahoy on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test

About The Original Kate

Along with artistic tendencies, Kate enjoys unusual people and is constantly striving for some sort of nonconformity. Kate offers a perspective that is thoughtful but well-written and full of images within the words. Other tidbits that might intrigue: she has very long auburn hair, and, you guessed it, her favorite color is orange.

Posted on March 11, 2006, in From Rabid-Mormon Land Known As Utah. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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